In a reflective piece by Keith Wong, a medical student aspiring to be a family doctor at the University of Ottawa, Barcelona triggers thoughts of his parents, despite their lack of connection to the city or Europe. Wong and his friends visited Barcelona during a summer break after their first year of medical school, leaving him with poignant reflections on his parents.
While dining at a restaurant in Barcelona, Wong observed a middle-aged couple enjoying a slice of cheesecake. The man, with a content expression, listened attentively to the woman’s chatter, reminding Wong of his own parents’ cozy evenings spent in front of the TV enjoying apple strudels from Superstore.
Wong’s parents, who have always prioritized education despite not attaining high academic credentials themselves, have supported Wong and his sisters through university and postgraduate studies. Wong feels a growing sense of responsibility to repay their sacrifices, especially as he nears the completion of his medical education.
Despite the financial strain of extended medical schooling, Wong is determined to fulfill his promise of taking his parents on a trip once he completes his residency. However, concerns arise as his father’s health deteriorates and his mother’s doctor recommends new medications, casting doubt on whether they will be able to enjoy such experiences in the future.
While Wong grapples with delayed gratification due to his demanding medical training, he finds solace in the simple yet meaningful acts of love and gratitude towards his parents. Regular communication, shared updates, and fond memories help bridge the distance between them, reinforcing the bond and appreciation he holds for his parents.
As Wong navigates the complexities of balancing his aspirations with familial responsibilities, he cherishes the moments that connect him to his parents, acknowledging their unwavering support and sacrifices throughout his journey.
