In Delta, B.C., a cherished childhood memory for Isma Ishtiaq involves family dinners on a small beige mat, the setting sun casting a warm glow. These gatherings featured delicious Pakistani dishes like biryani and butter chicken, fostering a tradition passed down from Lahore to the quiet suburbs.
The act of sitting on the ground to eat was not just about the meal but a humbling experience, instilling gratitude for the food shared. As time passed, busy schedules led to a lapse in these family dinners, until a Thanksgiving dinner at 23 reignited the tradition.
Inviting friends of diverse backgrounds, Isma recreated the circle on the worn-out beige mat, sharing Thanksgiving turkey. The evening brought together friends and family, bridging cultural traditions with Canadian customs.
Inspired by the revival of the tradition, Isma’s father decided to continue the practice, bringing the family closer despite their hectic lives. Whether on the mat or at a dining table, the essence of togetherness remains strong, emphasizing the importance of shared stories and meals in uniting the family across generations.
